Three days before we welcomed our little boy into the world, I was able to photograph another very special little boy and his amazing mama. I met up with them in the NICU and was blessed to capture these images that stir my heart because there is just so much love in her gaze upon him. She already has 2 sweet twin boys at home (who I photographed here and here), but her heart has expanded once again with crazy, true and deep love for this tiny little man... who most certainly has the heart of a fighter. When I visited with them, he had been in the hospital for 6 weeks and is progressing really well. Here is the full story in the words of his mom, Settle.
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We have so much to celebrate and so much praise and thanksgiving to give. Duncan was born on November 18, 2010 at 7:16 in the morning. He started out tipping the scales at 2 pounds, 12.5 ounces. He has a head full of beautiful, dark hair. We are quickly learning than any update we give is merely a snapshot of Duncan's overall condition. The early life of a preemie is so fluid that what is true in the morning may change by the afternoon.
Duncan started out breathing using a ventilator. He soon graduated to a nasal canula, which essentially provided a flow of air to support his breathing. As of Monday, November 22, Duncan has been breathing room air on his own! This is truly a miracle and an answer to our prayers for God's protection of Duncan's lungs. The head doctor of the NICU described Duncan's breathing as "luck". We know that it is nothing short of miraculous.
He receives my breast milk through a feeding tube. The nurses gradually increase the amount of milk that he receives. So far he has been digesting the milk well. We also received word from the doctor on Wednesday that his head ultrasounds show no signs of bleeding in the brain. This is huge because brain bleeds are very common for preemies and have varying degrees of effects on babies.
I have been able to hold Duncan twice and change his diaper several times. Kangaroo care (time for skin to skin contact) is by far my favorite part of visiting Duncan. Holding my son who I have prayed for and thought about incessantly since my water broke on September 20 is pure bliss.
Duncan still has a long road ahead of him. Before the doctors will consider allowing
him to come home, he must gain substantial weight and learn how to eat from the
bottle and breast. He must be able
to maintain stable breathing and a stable heart rate as well as maintain an
appropriate body temperature. They
tell us to plan on bringing him home around my due date, January 28, if all
goes well. Please continue to pray
for Duncan.
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Thank you for letting me into this beautiful, intimate place. Settle, my friend, I hope that you treasure these images and know that your prayers will cling to sweet Duncan.
"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family."
- Anthony Brandt
great colors & LOVE LOVE LOVE the location! that teal door is awesome! p.s. can i please get that woman's hair? it rocks!
(12.08.10 @ 11:07 AM)ridiculous. that first image especially is just ridiculous. gorgeous.
(12.08.10 @ 05:22 PM)ahhhhh! these are over the top fabulous :)
(12.09.10 @ 06:49 AM)Amy,
I have a few more pictures of yours posted on Family Fountain and Bible Fountain. They have been great! Thanks for letting me use them. wb
What a way to start off the day. A smile like this has the power to keep all things in perspective for the day I think....
for real? oh my goodness. gorgeous. you are going to have one smiling at you soon! :-)
(11.30.10 @ 04:02 PM)Two hearts in love need no words
- Desbordes-Valmore
oh my goodness, miss molly is the cutest thing ever!!! look at that hair!!! she is the spitting image of naomi & michael!!!!
(11.20.10 @ 02:17 PM)LOVE IT, Amy!!! :) I can't believe that beautiful girl is ours. I love the way you have captured her sweet face - and the mohawk! It was so special to have you take these pictures for us. Thank you!!!
(11.20.10 @ 05:36 PM)She looks so serious and yet completely precious! Love the black and whites...
(11.21.10 @ 12:23 AM)Soooo beautiful! The gorgeous Brill girl genes definitely shine through in sweet Molly!
(11.21.10 @ 12:12 PM)Oh, Amy..that first black and white picture is breathtaking. LOVE.
(11.22.10 @ 09:30 AM)tear. these make me happier than i know what to do.
(11.22.10 @ 08:06 PM)-- Alan Beck
She is half the inspiration for Towne and Reese jewelry as well as being one of my favorite little girls in the world. I've been blessed enough to photograph her all the way from newborn, to her first few months, random sweet family moments, and some really fun photos last year at this time. It's no secret that this girl holds a special place in my heart and as she grows up I'm just captivated by her spunk and charm. These images are such delicious snapshots of all the elements of miss Towne's personality... and yes, I can't help but fall in love with her all over again when I look at her sweet face.
AHHHH!!!!!!! I gasped when I saw this! I haven't seen Towne in so long and she is GORGEOUS!!!! Seriously Ames, great job at capturing these presh pictures!!!
(11.04.10 @ 05:42 PM)AHHHH!!!!!!! I gasped when I saw this! I haven't seen Towne in so long and she is GORGEOUS!!!! Seriously Ames, great job at capturing these presh pictures!!!
(11.04.10 @ 05:42 PM)I adore these photos and I adore that sweet little girl and her parents! XO
(11.05.10 @ 09:02 AM)oh my goodness, she is adorable. i love her tutu and i love these pictures.
(11.09.10 @ 02:28 PM)OH MY GOODNESS! She is the spitting image of her mother. Both of them absolutely GORGEOUS! Amy Free ... again you've stolen my heart with your photography. Towne has stolen my heart with her adorableness.... so much I can't handle it! xo
(11.11.10 @ 10:06 AM)
oh lord, I wasn't prepared to sit here at my desk and sob like this. Heart of a fighter indeed!!! Love and light to the Monroe family!!!!!!!
(01.11.11 @ 03:31 PM)Settle, my little boy John Clark was born at 28 weeks and weighed 2 lbs 12 ozs as well! He is five now..and it has been quite a journey. I pray that you will have a smooth ride. Please email me if you want any advice on being a preemie mom...! It is such a blessing to be constantly reminded of how precious each little moment is with our little ones!
(01.11.11 @ 04:12 PM)Heart of a fighter indeed!!!! Duncan will love coming home to such a loving, wonderful family. Prayers are with you!
(01.11.11 @ 06:05 PM)What wonderful pictures, Settle ! Duncan has grown since I saw him----What a little fighter ! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family constantly.
(01.11.11 @ 06:25 PM)Sooo proud of YOU ! You look wonderful !!! Sure Duncan feels your love !
What wonderful pictures, Settle ! Duncan has grown since I saw him----What a little fighter ! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family constantly.
(01.11.11 @ 06:26 PM)Sooo proud of YOU ! You look wonderful !!! Sure Duncan feels your love !
I suppose life is always a miracle, but when I see these pictures of our tiny boy I am reminded of just how precious life is. I am also reminded of the blessing Duncan has in being born into this family and being loved by you and Jeff and so many others. Please thank your friend Amy for sharing her gift with us. It is wonderful to see Duncan and even feel the love through her lens.
(01.12.11 @ 09:41 AM)What beautiful pictures of our grandson. You have a real talent for capturing moments with your photos.
(01.12.11 @ 10:38 AM)Thank you.
These are SO sweet, and it is wonderful to see Duncan after all these weeks. That hair- love it! I LOVE the one of him looking into his beautiful mama's face. All our love to the Monroe's and the Free's!
(01.12.11 @ 02:30 PM)